Black beetle in my shower!

3/15/15
Hey mom!! Yeah that stuff was pretty gnarley haha.  And i ate some mei right after but that did not even come close to drowning out the taste of that horrible witches brew haha. After eating that all i really wanted was a good ol slice of pizza... :( hahahaha!! But not much happened this week due to a ton of heavy rain and a putu which meant we couldnt really do any work for like 3 days... kinda sucks but gotta respect the family and the culture. The upside is i got to read my scriptures a ton and i love the scripture so much more the more that i read them!!! Being in the mission field puts an entire new perspective on the idea of reading about missionary work in the Book of Mormon.  The best example is the story of Ammon and King Lamoni.  I have learned that the best way to teach and even to learn is by easy and simple truths as nephi said he rejoiced in.  In the Book of Alma, Ammon teaches King Lamoni in such a simple, yet true way, that there is no denying its truthfulness because of its simplicity and truth.  It also helped that Ammon used words and concepts that King Lamoni would understand and could refer to for a more clear picture.  I just love that story of Ammon even more now!!!! 
I forgot to mention another bug experience that i had this week though haha! So this past week, i cant remember specifically on which day, i got up in the morning and i was moving like a zombie hung over (on the spirit of course haha). My comp was still asleep and i decided to hop in the shower before i did my morning program. So here in Tonga, we have to turn on a pump to get the water to flow through the pipes.  So i walked sluggishly dragged my weighted feet into the bathroom and i turned on the pump to let the water kind of work its way to the shower head haha.  So while thats happening i brushed my teeth and waited for like a min.  (Sing this next part to "popcorn popping on the apricot tree") I move the shower curtain and what do i see... a fat black beetle staring back at me!! haha! Ya know some people have a hard time waking up in the morning, like myself, and i think i found a very effective way to jump start you morning.  It has a horn looking thing, is black, has six legs, and a stare like death....yeah that'll getcha hahaha!! So i tried to just wash it down the drain but it was being such a punk! Its like it didnt want to be in the drain or something hahaha! Anyways finally it goes down and i hop in the shower thinkin alls good right?.....WRONG!!! As soon as i close the shower curtain i see something scurry over my foot and hop on to the wall next to me.  Now it could have been the friendly neighborhood spiderman...but probly not...i look over and a cockroach the size of door knob is just chillin on the wall...did i mention it scurried across my foot....ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!! In the span of about a half of a second i tried to scream but remembered that my companion was still asleep so i tried to muffle it...didnt work out to well... it sound like this sheep video:http://www.wimp.com/screamingsheep/    Now that you have the sound, i screamed like a sheep and hoppped out the shower like i was running the hurdles in track haha!! So the next fifteen minutes of my morning were spent trying to build up the courage to even go back in to the bathroom and what i was going to do when i went back haha.  So i tried the drain idea again but guess what?  The thing was too darn big for the drain!!!! So plan B) squash the sucker!! muahahaha! jk, it was more like this guy/girl video: http://bestofvine.org/v/109134/ghetto-girls-reaction-to-seeing-dead-animal-oldvine   I cannot explain how many times i had to smack this thing to kill it or at least get it to stop moving its legs so much.  Because even after i hit it and it couldnt run anymore it still flailed its antennae around like it was at a led zepplin concert!!  Yeah...gross!!!!!!!!! So that was pretty much the best alarm clock i have ever experienced!!! Two enthusiastic thumbs up!!! haha jk!!!! Any that was my week.

Love you mom!! Always and forever!!!

Ofa Lahi Atu!!

Elder Tavake

Ofa Lahi Atu!!

Elder Tavake

Did Anyone Grab the Ice cream?

Hi mom! Long time no talk! haha sorry.  In kolonga, the internet was literally broken and i had no way of writing home... but a few things have happened in the past few weeks since i last spoke to you.  So I had my first real transfer where i moved areas. I moved much closer to the city in a village called Fanga.  It is so different compared to being in kolonga haha!  It made me realize that i really was in the bush when i got here to fanga haha! In kolonga there werent many people driving around or even walking around really.  But then over here there are always cars going places and people walking up and down the streets!  And there are tons of lights!! In kolonga we had one street light haha! But here in Fanga there are lights everywhere1 It was almost like being back in america haha. Anyways, my new comp is Elder Lolohea. He is from Glendale, UItah..go figure right?  He has been out for 9 months and he sounds really good when he speaks to the ward members. I sure hope mine will be as good as his in 7 months haha.  The work over here is going good we just need to keep pushing forward with faith and strive ever harder to be obedient.  I love my area though!! The kainga lotu (ward members) are super friendly and are helping a lot with my tongan.  My zones are also really cool and the first few days i was here they took me and my hoa (companion) out for ice cream!! That took me back haha!  Funny story though. So we went to the beach at like 8 and just chilled on the dock eating out dinner with the zones and we were just finishing our dinnner and about to tear into the ice cream when the zones got a call from their kainga lotu for a fai ngaue (priesthood blessing) so we all gathered up our food and packed it into the car.  As we were driving along, laughing and having a good time, i heard something hit the side of the car...i stopped the laughter and asked a horrifying question..."Did anyone grab the ice cream off the top of the car?" Elder Freer (one of the zones) was like "Thats not funny man. I know you have it." I responded that i didnt.  Once again Freer said "I know you have it." and added "I know you hav it man. Stop playing around." Thats when we all started busting out laughing and stopped the car.  We got out of the car and what do we see...?  Four sad missionaries... hahaha!! So we didnt actually get to eat ice cream that night haha. Sucks though huh? What a waste...well i am sure the dogs enjoyed it. And they better cuz if i get hungry anytime soon i am gonna tap one of the dogs on the head with a stick...gently of course...hahahahahaha!!! Well i dont have a ton of time but i just wanted to let you all know that i am doing good and i will most likely be in better contact k=now that i am in the city haha.  On another note, general conference was simply beautiful and exactly the reminder i needed to look at the goal ahead in this great and marvelous work!!!  I encourage any who are struggling in any way to listen to the talks that were given and pay attention to the feelings and thoughts you have as they speak, rather than trying to write down everything we hear.  I promise you will receive strength and wise counseling from our heavenly father as you hearken to the words of these inspired men and women!!

I love you mom!! Always and forever!!!!

Ofa Lahi Atu!!!

Elder Tavake

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Ikuna Tavake

1st one is me and my new comp

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Ikuna Tavake

This is grandpa vics old house in which he does not live... i missed him by that much haha. But i will keep looking.

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Maile Tavake

YAY!!! So happy to hear from you!! It's only been a week since I last wrote but it's been a full week of work and play! All the kids were out of school for Spring break so I had them go to work with me for half a day and then w...

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Maile Tavake

Awww.... wow :( Thanks for sharing. Love you!

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Thats really funny!! hahaha i miss that guy! but thats even funnier that he had your number and the prank flipped backwards haha!! Well i love you mom and i love hearing from you and that you are doing ok. I pray for you all every day and i hope all is well.  Thanks for checking up ion me and writing even when i cant.  But it sounds like everyone is good. I am also happy for noa and amber because i personally think those to just need to stop procrastinating and get married already!! hahaha jk!! kinda.... haha. But i will talk to you next week! I love you mom!!!1 Always and forever!!!!

Boomshakalaka mount wannahakaloogie leafakapalangi!

3/8/15
Hey mom!! I love the pictures you sent!!  Man they make me quite homesick but ill be good haha! I will admit that it can be hard to lose yourself in the work.  Even though i am as excited as ever to serve the Lord in the mission field, we are actually very limited to what we can do.  For example, we cant tract or proselyte so we can only work with the members to find investigators or less actives.  I guess that its due to the idea that people dont like if you just come and knock and their door and say "Would you like to hear about Jesus Christ?". But i dont know. On top of that we are serving in one of the smallest villages. We are all the way out in the bush right next to Fatumu haha! So there are only about 15 or so houses to go to and after that we just study for the next hours of the day. And sometimes my mind just wonders and i end up thinking about home...not always fun but i sure do miss everyone...Dont worry though, i know why i am out here and i know that the Lord is helping me every step of the way.  Anyways how are you doing mom? How is work? Dad taking you on enough date nights? haha! If not, you should bring up Leatherbys or something haha! I hope you are doing ok and i pray for you all everyday.  This week for me was fun but uncomfortable, but hey thats the usual for the mission field right? So I had to give my first talk in church on Sunday and it was really funny.  So some background information is that everyone in the village knows me as the palangi kid who cant speak tongan haha.  So on Sunday our Bishop came up to us to tell us when we would be talking and then he looked at me and was like, "I assume you are going to be giving your talk in English?". Well he actually said it in Tongan so it more accurately sounded like "boomshakalaka mount one hakaloogie leafakapalangi?" hahaha! He was really shocked when i told him i would be giving my talk in Tongan.  So in sacrament i got and it was funny to see some peoples face because I dont think they think I practice my Tongan haha. I just read what i had written down and the gist of my talk was talking about enduring to the end.  After my comp and i had both spoken, we took our sits down in the congregation and listened.  Bishop got up after one other speaker and paused for a moment.  Then he expressed his words of appreciation towards me and my talk.  He said that I had reminded him of a palangi companion he had in his mission who was also learning to speak Tongan.  He said that he knew how hard his comp had worked so he appreciated my same effort for giving my talk in Tongan even though i was not very skilled.  I really appreciated this. It gave me this sense of comfort that even though i am not perfect the language is coming and it just takes time and effort and a lot of prayer and relying on the Lord.  There is one other experience I think you would like to hear. So this week i had a great opportunity to taste what the Tongans call Lomu.  I guess its a delicacy...If i had to describe what it looked like, it looked somthing like chopped up octopus legs mixed with troll snot and wet witch hair...so it looked delicious if i were golem from Lord of the Rings...haha.  At first i said i was ok and i really didnt want to try it because even the scent was making me sick.  But then i felt bad because this family had prepared a ton of food for us and they wanted me to try it and my companions were just egging it on...so...i ended up trying it...now let me explain what i really is.  Lomu is the chopped up intestines of a sea cucumber that is left in the ocean salt water and then eaten raw....ummmm...blah!!...Honestly i just wanted to blurt out "Why of all things on earth would you eat that!?" But i just sucked it up and prepared myself.  I took a good look at what could be the cause of my next trip to the hospital, and I just closed my eyes and hoped for the best...at first it didnt taste that bad,..then i could REALLY taste it!...I almost threw up!! I really just wanted to spit it out but i didnt want to be rude so i just kept myself composed and pretended like it was a normal mcdouble with cheese...yeah...then i tries to bite it...that could not have been a worse idea!! As I bit down, first it was squishy and i could taste the salt water coming out of the nasty tentacle thangs...the I got to the center...and it was hard as a bone...except it moved around!!  It moved from one side to another like when you are handling a bar of soap in the shower and cant quite catch it. Except it was in my mouth and it tasted like salt water mixed with death!!! Ewwwwwww!!!! Ahhhh!!!! After that i totally lost it. I just swallowed the sucker and then I covered my mouth and tried not to hurl...everyone started laughing and then the lady of the house was like "How is it?"...I just looked at her and in my head i was like "How does it look like it is!?" But i just quickly said "Ifo aupito"  Which means "It was very delicious"...yeah i know...i lied...hahaha, but hey it was funny because they all started dying with laughter!! But this week was a great week!! We are supposed to get 4 more contacts so we are hoping and praying for it.  Thats all for this week!

2 Baptisms and Say, "Try me!" instead of "Why me?"

2/22/15 Hey mom!!  ...The work is going well here, however i am still adjusting but i will be just fine :) This week was another great week!! So i will mention that i have already seen two huge spiders that were like the size of the palm of my hand!!! EWWWWWWWW!! It was sick, and i squealed, again....and i wasnt even that close to it....yeah...really need to work on the whole being a man thing haha!! jk! ok, maybe im a little serious...haha.  Anyways, on Wednesday we had another baptism! And funny story, so my comp and i forgot to teach her how to be baptized. Ya know, the whole bend your knees and plug your nose type deal.  So when I went to baptize her, instead of it being like she goes in nice and easy and comes out all graceful, it went a little more like this: After the prayer, i went to baptize her and then she pretty much kicked up both of her feet and i was suppose i was to catch her like she was a newly wed bride! haha! So i was trying to make this look as nice and graceful as possible, but it didnt exactly turn out that way.  See, she was already under the water, and i havent worked out in a while...which is not to be taken the other way, because she was a very healthy young woman...haha! We will just say it was a lot of water weight, ya? haha! But i didnt want her family to think that i was drowning her ya know. So i kind of yanked her out of the water a little...but hey, its not my fault she was swept off her own two feet hahahaha! jokes!!  Another great and funny story is that we had a fourth baptism on Saturday. So everything was going good.  We had good talks and a good baptismal program and then we got to the baptismal part...So while we were walking in to where the baptismal font is, i slowly started making my way down into the font and guess what...i slipped!!...yep, not exactly the most graceful baptizer in the mission field. I fell into the baptismal font in front of everyone and everyone started laughing. Well everyone except bishop...but fortunately my head didnt go in so i didnt look like i baptized the both of us haha! Anyways, the baptism, after my clutz moment, went great!! So all jokes aside, i am so grateful for the baptisms that we have had this week and even though i am a clutz, the spirit was still there and each moment was a beautiful moment.  To witness two more of God's children take that first step in coming unto Christ is a beautiful opportunity! To be a part of it is something words cannot describe. I love this Gospel and even though it can be hard sometimes i have learned that the Lord allows hardships and trials to either 1) strengthen us as his children and as his disciples. or 2) to create a way to show forth his mighty hand and mighty works among the children of men!! I am grateful for these trials and the ones that i know will come.  There is a saying that i remembered during this past week and it said, "Instead of saying 'Why me?' we should be saying 'TRY ME!'" So remember if times get hard and you dont know what to do or you just dont see the point of whats happening and feel like giving up, remember that the Lord has a plan.  Remember that he is your strength if you will let him be so. Remember to think as the savior did and say "Try me!" And we will receive strength we never knew we had!

I love you mom!! Always and forever!!!

Ofa Lahi Atu!!!

Elder Tavake

Ps. Thanks for everything you taught me mom.  I am learning more and more that everything you and dad ever taught me was so i could embark in the service of God here in Tonga.  So thank you for being the great example and mother that you are and always have been to me!!! I love you!!! <3

1st 2 Baptisms and an encounter with a cockroach :-0

2/15/15 Hey mom! Yeah things are going pretty good but i am getting better thanks to all of your advice and counsel!! Thanks for always knowing what to say because it really does help a ton!! But i am glad you enjoyed the story because i have got a couple more from this week. haha. This week was pretty awesome though because we had our first two baptisms!!  Their names are SP and SK. It was funny because guess who got to baptize them?? This guy!! oh yeah...and it was in tongan!! haha.  Here is the prayer "State their name.  Kuo fakamafai'i au e Sisu Kalaisi pea oku ou papitaiso koe i he huafa oe Tamai, pea moe Alo, pea moe Laumalie Ma'oni'oni. Emeni" So we had to go and prep the baptismal font like 3 and a half hours before because i guess they havent had a baptism here in months, so the font was super dirty and needed to be cleaned.  Then is took like an hour or so to fill so we were there for a while.  But it was a really cool experience getting to baptize in the mission field for the first time!  And in tongan!! Afterwards, this thought came into my head saying "This is why you are here."  And i thought that was the coolest thing!!  Also another funny story, me and Elder Lisiate were walking home and right when we walked in our door something fell on my neck. So i grabbed it...yeah..bad idea...it was a cockroach!!! I hucked it and it scurried under my bed...blahhhh!!  I touched it!!!!  It was the grossest thing ever!! I almost threw up and i kinda squealed like a little girl haha! But thats all for this week! Lovin the work!!  Things are going great!!

I love you mom!! Always and forever!!

Ofa Lahi Atu!!

Elder Tavake

You can have our dog!!

2/8/15 Hey mom! Sounds like you are having a pretty busy time back home.  But its more like anxiously engaged right?? :) Yeah i have done a lot of praying and relying on the lord and finding things to do to keep myself engaged in the work.  Because truth be told, this mission is very laid back and it is very difficult to stay focused sometimes.  For example, we are not allowed to proselyte or tract or street contact.  We can only get our investigators from the members of the wards, so our main job is to inspire the ward members to engage in the effort of missionary work.  It is quite different than what i thought i would be doing but nonetheless i will do what the lord asks of me.  On a funnier and kind of sadder note, today we couldn't figure out who our fafanga was (the member family that was going to feed us) so our neighbors said we could have one of their dogs...yeah...you don't hear that everyday in America haha.  So we went over and i about died because i watched them "put the dog down" (in a nicer term for a really gruesome action).  Then we picked some mei (breadfruit) and skinned the dog and it is now cookin in the umu (underground pit thang...haha).  Ill be honest, i am still a little freaked out from the whole putting the dog down scenario because it wasn't the nicest tap on the head with a log that i have ever seen...ha...but i guess thats a good way to say WELCOME TO TONGA!!!! HAHAHA!! Anyways, if their is anything i will say for this week, a good thing to do for ourselves as a reminder of how good God is and how much he blesses us is to keep a notebook/journal of blessings we have in our life.  Just a person or a thing and a brief description of why we are grateful for them or it.  It really has opened my eyes to how much God has blessed me.  It also made me realize why i am so home sick...its because i have blessed  with the best family ever!!!  The best friends anyone could ask for!!! The gospel!!! and so much more in my life!!!  Funny that i had to travel thousands of miles away to truly understand that!!! :)

Anyways, I love you mom!! Thanks for the advice!  It always lifts my spirit and makes my week brighter to hear from you and the family and that you are supporting me :)

I love you mom!  Always and Forever!!!

Ofa Lahi Atu!!!!

Elder Tavake

MTC Companion Elder Kolopeaua, WELCOME TO TONGA!! MOSQUITOS LOVE ME!!